I’m quick to throw myself a pity party. I’m so tired, I’m working so hard, I still don’t have a million dollars, I’m so bored, I really want a white Panamera. Why am I not famous? Life is so hard. Can you tell I’m a bit of a drama queen?
When I was in college I thought I had it tough. My parents weren’t able to put up any money for me to go to school so I had to work full-time and it took me a year longer than I originally planned to graduate because I decided to double major. It was “tough” to get up at 6 a.m. to commute to school in a new car for an 8 a.m. class, only to arrive on campus and hurry past students with walking sticks trying to find their way. It was “tough” to hardly pay attention and stay off of my phone, while other students had to have lectures signed by an interpreter in order to be able to take notes. Many days I was drained from going to work, rushing to campus, then having to go back to work but I had class with so many working single parents who were only able to take one class a semester in order to balance their households that I was embarrassed to even complain out loud.
As “tough” as it was, I was constantly reminded how easy I had it. All I had to do was show up and apply myself. Had I had things my way, I would have been enjoying college loan-free, job-free and stress-free but what would that have done for my character? As much as I had to complain about, I know now I wasn’t thankful enough. Gratitude is the spring from which blessings flow. When you realize there are people that have to work twice or three times as hard to do the things that are “tough” for you, you realize how much you’re truly capable of. I’m grateful for those small moments of clarity and inspiration. Today I encourage you to “show up and apply yourself” because for most of us, it’s THAT easy.
Have a kick-ass Monday, xx.
I love this! Definitely needed to hear this. I as well have had to pay my own way through school, because my parents couldn’t help me financially. Doesn’t bother me one bit though, because it makes me appreciate the process more. Im close to being done, but its been a long road. Ive taken breaks, worked full-time since getting out of highschool and gone half-time instead of full-time credit hours, but I see that light at the end of the tunnel for me. Thank you for this Monday motivation!
It really does build your character, you’ll be so happy that you did it all for yourself when it’s all said and done! Congratulations on almost being done, it’s all smooth sailing from here. Xx.
Wonderfully said! I am a mother to 4! Working full time and going to school part time! And it’s taking me way longer to get done because I take a semester off or only take 1 class at a time. But I’m determined to finish! Thanks for reminding us that no matter how hard it gets someone always has it harder! Takes your blessings way into consideration! Xoxo
Sheila, I love to hear this resonated with you. Once you finish you will look back on how time flew by! Hang in there, it’s always worth it. Xx.